You know those times, when you’re walking through the Swamps of Lifeasyouknowit and you stub your toe, fly off the path, and land face first in the muck? It’s tarry and tacky and the more you fight it the stronger it holds, until you give in and lie limp, staring at the skies as Gremgirts drop gremdrops into your eyes. Suddenly a week or two has gone by when suddenly you realize that you’ve been stewing there long enough and you really ought to do something about it. So you start thrashing about, crying out, and trying to absorb wisdom from all but the roots of the nearby Trubbatrub Trees— seeking for any ounce of an inkling as to how you might set yourself free. You know, those times. Well that’s where I spent my last few weeks. It happens to me as it can happen to any ol’ monster.
Sometimes when you’re in the thick of it, or in the muck of it rather, it’s hard to see the way out, or you’re too busy thrashing to see the lifeline that’s landed next to you. But when you give into it, you’ll often find that the answer was there all along: just sit yourself up, wipe yourself off, give yourself a pat on the back and continue on. No harm done, hopefully, except for maybe the need of a shower, and most importantly— a new map!
Now I’ll be frank, it’s been a tough month for this here monster. I started off uber excited, motivated and inspired about my creative business, art, and this blog. Then I got all serious-perfectionist-ninja and pushed myself too hard, ran myself down, stressed myself into to the state of a monster-sized mud puddle, and lost sight of the whole point— to have and inspire more FUN! So yeah, I got caught in the muck but the process of removing myself from it has brought some clarity and the ensuing necessary redirection of my business and projects. The process being:
- Pause: stop what you’re doing, breathe deeply, and have self-compassion for your challenge
- Accept: that the struggle is part of the process of learning and growing, no matter how frustrating it may be
- Reflect: on what’s going on and what you could do differently
- Redirect: your plan, approach, or thoughts accordingly
And this applies to challenges in everyday life as much as to blockages you run into whilst pursuing creative endeavours or goals. I’m even testing it out on negative thought patterns, anxiety, frustration, or the ghastly “P Word”— perfectionism.
So anyway, the thing I’m redirecting today is this blog. It will now focus more on a behind-the-scenes of my Monster Studio than the original “Monsterly Self-Help” idea. That project is planned for a later date. This plan will help me concentrate on the essence of what Art of Nonsense is all about— creativity, play and joy! So what will this new blog look like? Same name, different tagline (coming soon). The sharing of sketches, art, poems, stories, project updates, sneak peaks, my process, ideas, thoughts, topics of interest, challenges, celebrations, inspiration and of course… MONSTERS! My posts will still feature tid-bits about self-love and self-discovery/improvement along the way, because those themes are interwoven in my work, my values, and arguably in any creative project or endeavour (perhaps a topic for another post?). So here I am, somewhat sparkling and clean, with a new intention to share with you my creative journey and hopefully inspire yours along the way. Here’s to us; may we unleash our inner creative creatures— hurrah!
P.S. If you have a project, goal, or challenge that has been giving you grief, can you approach it in a fresh way or different angle? New perspective can sometimes move mountains— even if it’s simple taking a walk down a new route or through nature. Just watch out for mud puddles and Gremgirts…!
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